
I dated a guy for two years and the most memorable moments we share were filled with fun and laughter. Whenever we came together I always had fun with him. All we needed was a joint and some liqs. I remember going to Sugarcane with him and having a wonderful meal filled with an amazing conversation. I remember being able to dance all crazy in front of him and he would just laugh, then 5 minutes later he was dancing all crazy in front of me. I also remember going to the park swinging on some swings and just talking about life.We really enjoyed each other's company. Thats the beauty of easy going relationships. Not only is your significant other your lover but they are your friend. Establishing friendship within a relationship is so important to me because once the relationship has dissolved there is still a chance of always being connected through friendship and I love that. I still keep in contact with all my ex boyfriends. I can honestly say I am friends with every last one of them and I am proud of that. Just because you didn't work as a couple doesn't mean you should just ex out all possibilities of a friendship. Some of these guys in my life mean so much to me that I don't want them to completely disappear after a breakup. Nevertheless, I feel that having that easy going relationship with a guy, filled with fun is amazing. I remember going to the club with the same guy and we had the time of our lives. There was no jealousy, no suffocation just dancing and laughing all night. I always used to tell him that the true test of our relationship would be us going to a strip club together and to be honest I know we would've had a blast because that's the type of relationship we had. I love the type of relationships where you can just be yourself. Fart, burp, laugh obnoxiously, dance crazy, say weird things and just enjoy life. Thats the true essence of being young and being in lust. I saw this picture and immediately thought of the fun aspect of a relationship. Beyonce looks so care free, so hip, so young and Jay Z compliments her with his cool laid back swag. I love it. To be young and in love is an amazing thing.
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